Hello 29!

So I just celebrated my 29th birthday this weekend! That sounds so crazy to say. I can’t believe I am 29 years old now. It’s officially the last chapter of my 20’s and boy has it been a wild ride. I wish I could say it’s made me so much more wiser and now I have all the answers; that I’ve finally found the secret to life, love, and happiness but I haven’t. BUMMER but C’est la vie! I always thought that by the time I had reached my 30’s I would be as the saying goes “thirty, flirty, and thriving.” I guess there’s still time so I won’t relinquish all hope.

I’ve also been told that 30 is the new 20 and somehow that seems a bit comforting. We still have plenty of time to make more mistakes and learn from them. Sexuality and expression is changing. We are defining what we want our life and relationships to look like on our own terms san society. I grew up in a very tight-laced conservative upbringing so I didn’t really find myself partying through college or much after.I’ve always been so focused on work and my goals. I didn’t feel the need to think much on self expression and what I truly desired my life to look like but the older I get the more I realize that if you can see it, you can be it. I guess what I’m trying to say is I’m looking forward to a very flirty and dirty 30’s. Living my life on my own terms, whatever that looks like to me.

UPDATE: I got the job! On my last post I let you guys know that I interviewed for a position and I did get the job and I started working this week so I’m glad that everything worked out. This new job is a lot less stressful and it pays a lot more so that’s also a plus and I am able to work later hours which gives me more time to rest and prioritize my needs so all around a win-win!

Celebrate you. Do whatever makes you happy. Carpe diem. You only live once! Unless you believe in reincarnation. I think it’s possible, but I don’t think I would agree to come back a second time, but that’s a whole different discussion for another time. Lol! I say learn the lesson set before you. Gain the spiritual knowledge that you need to. Embrace the world. See the beauty in it. Use your gifts to make the world a better place than it was when you first entered it. Spiritually advance and grow.

I am so grateful for another trip around the sun.

XO,

Nina